Learn As Many Languages As Possible

Modern-day princesses have to know as many languages as possible, so that when they visit diplomats from foreign countries, they can have at least most of the conversation in their native tongue.

Give Up Your Voting Rights

At least in England, that is. While there is no official law, the people of England consider it unconstitutional for the royal family to participate in elections, as they are supposed to represent the entire country. Once you become a princess, there's no more voting if you want to remain in the country's good graces.

Give Up Your Wild Side

A princess is most likely not the type to cause much trouble in the first place, but if she had any semblance of a wild side before, she's going to have to kiss that goodbye when she marries into the royal family. There aren't to be any scandals, no matter how small, coming from her or her family.

Prepare For A Life Of Formalities

Nicknames are not allowed in the royal palace. And you better get used to being called "Her Royal Highness the Princess __ of __."

Stay Impeccably Groomed

Princess Kate, or, rather, Catherine, goes to the salon at least three times a week for a blowout on top of haircuts and stylings. She's never caught in a bad moment, and she's an ideal example of a perfectly primped princess. Being a princess is not for those that like to run errands in their gym clothes after an intense workout.

Live By The Queen's Household Rules

The queen dictates a lot of the little things that go on in the day-to-day lives of the royal family. For example, everyone has to stop eating as soon as the queen is finished with her dinner, even if they've hardly touched it. So you better make sure you eat fast if you want to become a princess and still finish your food.

Go To The Best Schools And Events

To become a princess, you have to meet a prince. The likeliest places to do that are at the most prestigious institutions of higher education or at very high-end balls, galas, or charity events. So anyone expecting to be a princess had better get herself accepted to the best schools and on the lists for those events. It also looks much better, and it is better, for a princess to be well-educated, as she holds such a place of high importance in society.

Give Up Any Other Career Path

Being a princess is a full-time job, and it's expected to stay that way. So even if you went to the fanciest schools in the world to get the degree of your dreams, your dream to be a princess better be pulling you with a bit more strength. Princess Kate has a degree in art history, but she's a full-time princess now.

Skip Running For Office

A princess should never run for political office for similar reasons to the ban on voting. She's a representation of the whole country already, and running for a political office with a certain party would create a divide.

Find Causes You Care About

A major part of being a princess is doing a lot of charity work, and being a caring figure for the country. Most princesses find one or two causes that they truly care about and work toward making improvements in those areas.

from: https://littlethings.com/lifestyle/to-become-a-princess

I also found several sites that suggested life lessons we can learn from Disney princesses. Though the connection to God is not explicitly mentioned, it was interesting to me how many of the basic principles are expressly native to His Kingdom.

Accepting our chosenness includes embracing who we are - who God created us to be. I read about the extraordinary accomplishments of Simone Biles recently. She is one who has done just that - embraced who she is. In an article entitled Gymnastics Doesn’t Know What to Do With Simone Biles’s Dominance from The Atlantic, Jemele Hill says of Simone, 

'She has used the [goat} as her symbol since 2019 because she is the GOAT—as in “greatest of all time.” This, among other things, is what makes [Simone] Biles special. She embraces that she is so extraordinary, that there is no one in the world like her, nor has there ever been. “It’s important to teach our female youth that it’s OK to say, ‘Yes, I am good at this,’ and you don’t hold back,” Her greatness is a form of resistance.'

There is a poem by Marianne Williamson that speaks to this chosen status.

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?

You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.

We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us;
It's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.
As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

What privileges of being a princess come to mind? A few that came quickly to mind are:

• Forgiveness
• Strength
• Protection
• Companionship

Responsibilities 

• Believe
• Have faith
• Trust God
• Hope 
• Love

Make your own list.

We're making symbolic crowns from metallic pipe cleaners and beads to remind us that we are Royalty in the Heavenly Kingdom.

My Father is rich in houses and lands,
He holdeth the wealth of the world in His hands!
Of rubies and diamonds, of silver and gold,
His coffers are full, He has riches untold.

Refrain:
I’m a child of the King,
A child of the King:
With Jesus my Savior,
I’m a child of the King.

My Father’s own Son, the Savior of men,
Once wandered on earth as the poorest of them;
But now He is pleading our pardon on high,
That we may be His when He comes by and by. [Refrain]

I once was an outcast stranger on earth,
A sinner by choice, and an alien by birth;
But I’ve been adopted, my name’s written down,
An heir to a mansion, a robe, and a crown. [Refrain]

A tent or a cottage, why should I care?
They’re building a palace for me over there;
Though exiled from home, yet still may I sing:
All glory to God, I’m a child of the King. [Refrain]

If anybody asks you
Who I am?
Who I am?
Who I am?

If anybody asks you
Who I am?
Tell them I'm a child of GOD

[the following verses are from lyrics I found on line and liked. They are not exactly what is being sung on this video. There was a note that the verses are often ad libbed]

My name is __________
And I am __ years old
My heart is fixed
And my minds made up
I'm gonna make Heaven my home.

My name is __________
And I am __ years old
I've heard of a city
A city called Heaven
And I'm gonna make it my home

Source: African Methodist Episcopal Church Hymnal #298